I explained the difference to my co-worker tonight.
Because we do talk a lot about each other at my job if we get annoyed. We’re all gonna get on each others nerves, so for me to sit here and be like well I like *you, you and you* so I’ll never speak about you behind your back would be bullshit. I always emphasize how I really adore the person, but this thing they are doing is getting to me.
Talking shit would be more like “what a goddamn lazy twinkle twat, who smells like rotting milk all the time”
(Idk, winged that one fast. judge away)
Getting a lil irked with someone you like and enjoy being around is a thing. We’re only human.
BUT. Talking shit IS, going around telling my co workers that I’m not capable of doing the job I was hired for….simply because you went on the same interview and didn’t get it. Blame it on the other chick who got hired and never came back after covid. Smh.
If I am always nice to you, don’t be running your mouth. Because now I’m not letting you come up front and put on your lame, “trendy” hipster, indie rock music. And I will pretend I don’t know how to check you in or take your temp. when you walk in the building. Everyone’s on an ego trip since my two supervisors left. I love Meg, who’s the new one (she’s the one I was venting to) but these other little twerps are starting to get on my nerves.
Cause sweetie, I’m not venting about you anymore. I’m talking shit.
stay. in. your. lane